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Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand". Hebrews 6:19
Divorce is a deeply life-altering experience. Much like a birth or a death, it has the power to shake your world and shift the direction of your life entirely. And while it’s true that things may never go back to how they were, it’s also true that you can rise from this experience stronger, more grounded, and more at peace than ever before.
I’m Shibero — your Christian-Anchored, Divorce Coach.
— a licensed clinical Psychotherapist, Family Mediator, Couples counsellor with practice for over two decades. I am also the author of ' An African Woman’s Story of Divorce in Kenya, This Is Not Love, A Separation & Divorce Healing Guide for Women, This Is Not Love' These are some of my books, available on Amazon and in our bookshop here.
Whether you are navigating personal pain, adjusting to life after divorce, learning to co-parent, or facing the challenges of single motherhood—know that transformation is possible. Through a blend of biblical principles and faith-based coaching methods, and life observations and personal experiences, I will support you in moving forward with clarity, healing, and renewed purpose, by God's grace
MY STORY
Hello, I'm Shibero. I’m a divorced single mother and a Christian Divorce Coach dedicated to helping women of faith rediscover their peace, purpose after heartbreak, going on to thrive thereafter.
​After leaving an abusive 18-year marriage, I had to rebuild everything from the ground up for myself and my daughter. My faith in Christ became my anchor, giving me the courage to walk through pain, find my voice, and step into freedom.
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I navigated life as a single mum who was often financially broken. The isolation was immense; I experienced deep abandonment even while serving in the church. I desperately searched for a supportive space that understood this Christian experience—a place where I could grieve and heal without judgment. But that space didn’t exist.
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My personal journey toward healing not only led me to write several books on separation and divorce, but it also inspired me to run the DivorceCare healing program for my church. I have since continued to walk with women who are hurting through family breakdown.
My mission is to walk alongside other Christian women through their own journey, grounded in the remembrance of God's love and truth. Whatever you’re facing,
Please know—you are not alone.
If you’re standing at the edge of a life-saving separation or divorce, the fear can be suffocating. You may lie awake wondering how you’ll survive, or if your children’s lives will be shattered forever. But I want you to know this — your future is not doomed. Many women of faith have walked this same road and found joy, peace, and purpose on the other side. You are not alone… and God has not forgotten you.
You loved. You prayed. You tried to be the “good Christian wife.” And still… the marriage ended.
For women, walking through the pain of separation or divorce, the ones who left after abuse, were abandoned, or quietly replaced after years of sacrifice. Many feel deep loneliness and carry guilt, wondering if they’ve failed God.
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But Jesus has always met women in their broken places.
The woman at the well — rejected, yet restored.
The woman caught in adultery was judged, yet forgiven.
The woman with the issue of blood — shamed, yet healed.
If he met them, He will meet you too.
This is a place to find hope and connection. I know God can heal, redeem, and restore your life… just like He did mine.
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